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Mars Ballantyne's avatar

After being Extremely Online for 20 years (starting with Neopets and blogs/forums I was definitely too young for), I've been intentionally moving away from social media in particular but the internet in general because it's no longer as fun and informative as it once was. I used to be really involved in actual mutual aid, food recovery, and activism, until I got discouraged and burnt out from the moral purity standards /TikTok-ification of online slacktivism invading IRL spaces. The past few years I've been keeping to myself and reading lots of the books I didn't have time for when I was focused on surviving. I kept getting told I hadn't done "the work" of reading theory, even while I was loading food into my car to take to soup kitchens in between classes and 2 jobs. The answer to making these real-world communities work is to not only move community building increasingly into the real world, but to also leave the divisive hot takes in the social media sphere. If someone shows up and is willing to help out, we need to learn to work past differences and accept that people in the real world are not going to match the algorithmic sameness fed to us in our online bubbles.

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jamenta's avatar

I realized just a few days ago, one of my 2025 New Year's resolutions is to start moving away from social media and the Internet, which is addictive, especially if you're a bit of an introvert. One can still find good content but the "good content" to noise ratio has gotten much worse.

Luckily, one can find many other things to do in life then spend hours on end with social media.

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